Unit Five.Handshaking and Kissing Etiquette,Focal Points,The rules for business handshake,Kissing etiquette in business,It is initiated when the two hands touch,immediately.It is commonly done upon meeting,greeting,parting,offeringcongratulations,expressing gratitude,or completing anagreement.Insportsor other competitive activities,it is also done as a sign of goodsportsmanship.,Its purpose is to convey trust,balance,and equality.,Lead-in,Handshaking,What is Handshaking?,Kiss is a kind of common courtesy of coming from ancient times，which is usually initiated when people are greeting.It is agestureindicatingcourtesy,respect,admiration or even devotion.,Lead-in,Kissing,What is Kissing?,Handshaking and Kissing Etiquette,It refers to the gestures of handshaking or kissing when people are meeting,greeting or farewelling to show their respect,courtesy,affection to each other in business situations.,Lead-in,Contents:,Handshaking,Kissing:Greetings Across the Globe,Business Etiquette for Handshakes,Kissing:A Social Greeting Migrating Into the Business Arena,Lead-in,Handshaking,Handshaking,Kissing:Greetings Across the Globe,In most places around the globe,handshake,is a universal greeting,representing the emotional connection between two people with a physical clasping of hands.,Kissing,In some countries,greeters prefer to kiss each other,like cheek-kissing,hand-kissing.,Business Etiquette for Handshakes,Handshake,People shake hands by extending the right hand with the thumb up and out,fingers pointing toward the others hand so that one makes contact within the space between the thumb and first finger.,Handshake,Connect for a correct handshake正确的握手方式 伸出手,Connecting for a correct handshake正确的握手方式 接触,A correct handshake正确的握手方式 紧握,Business Etiquette for Handshakes,The Good Time to,shake hand,Introduced to others and say goodbye.,Meet client.,The visitor comes into your room or office.,Attend the receptions or parties and take leave.,An effective handshake:,Say your name and extend your hand.,Develop a comfortable handshake and keep it consistent.,Handshakes should not be too hard;or too soft.,Make a solid connection of the web skin between the thumb and forefinger.,The host or person with the most authority usually initiates the handshake.,Rules of shaking hands,Between the superior and the subordinate:after the superiors hold out hands,，,the subordinate can shake hands;,The youth and the old:after the old hold out hands,，,the youth can shake hands;,Male and female:after female hold out hands,，,male can shake hands;,People should stand up to shake hands;,The time should be 3 to 5 seconds and dont be too short or too long;,It is a unfriendly behaviour when others hold out hands but you dont hold out;,You can only use right hands;,Another hands should not be put into the pocket.,Kissing:A Social Greeting Migrating Into the Business Arena,Cs,of business kissing,Country,Culture,Even in countries where kissing is the national pastime,the handshake is still the preferred business greeting.,The corporate culture of the field in which you work will influence whether a hand shake or kiss is more appropriate.,Kissing:A Social Greeting Migrating Into the Business Arena,Cs,of business kissing,Connection,Context,How well you know the other person,and whether or not you also have a social relationship,can dictate whether or not to kiss.,Where you are and what you are doing will also play into the appropriateness of the kiss.,Exercises,.,Role-play activity,Divide the class into groups;,Shake hands with each member of your group to learn the rules of business handshaking.,Exercises,II.Decide the following cases are,true or false.State your reasons.,1.When shaking hands,a man should wait for a woman to extend her hand.,2.In the business arena,it is not necessary for men or women to stand for handshaking.,3.To show confidence,authority during a handshake,you should use a“bone crusher.,Exercises,III.Please discuss“Kissing Etiquette in different cultures.,