,*,45 lessons in life,人生教我的,45,堂课,作者：,Regina Brett,，,90,歲,美,國,俄亥俄州，克里夫,蘭,，,Plain Dealer,城,Life isnt fair,but its still good.,人生是不公平，,但還是,好得很,2.When in doubt,just take the next small step.,懷,疑的,時,候，朝,著,未,來,踏出一小步,3.Life is too short to waste time hating anyone,.,人生太短，短到,來,不及浪,費時間,去恨任何人,4.Your job wont take care of you when you are sick.Your friends and parents will.Stay in touch.,生病的,時,候，你的工作不,會,照,顧,你；你的朋友和父母,會,。,與,他,們,保持,聯繫,5.Pay off your credit cards every month.,每個月,付清你的信用卡,6.You dont have to win every argument.,Agree to disagree.,你不需要每一次都吵赢。同意你不同意的,7.Cry with someone.Its more healing than crying alone.,找人一起哭，比,獨,自啜泣更加,療癒,8.Its OK to get angry with God.He can take it.,對,上帝生,氣,没有,關係,，祂受得了,9.Save for retirement starting with your first,paycheck,.,退休存款,從,你的第一,張,薪水,單開,始,10.When it comes to chocolate,resistance is futile.,講,到巧克力，抗拒只是徒,勞無,功,11.Make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.,與,你的,過,去和解，别,讓,它搞砸你的,當,下,12.Its OK to let your children see you cry.,讓,你的孩子看到你哭没有,關係,13.Dont compare your life to others.,You have no idea what their journey is all about.,别拿自己的人生,與,他人比,較,，你根本不清楚他,們,的人生是怎,麼,一回事,14.If a relationship has to be a secret,you shouldnt be in it.,如果一段,親,密,關係,要偷偷摸摸，你根本不,應該,涉入,15.Everything can change in the blink of an eye.But dont worry;God never blinks.,一眨眼的功夫什,麼,都,會變,，但是别,擔,心：上帝,從來不,眨眼,16.Take a deep breath.,It calms the mind.,深吸一口,氣,，它,會,安定你的大,腦,17.Get rid of anything that isnt useful,beautiful or joyful.,丢掉没用的，不美的，或不喜,歡,的,東,西,18.Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger.,没,讓,你死的事情，真的,會讓,你更,堅,强,19.Its never too late to have a happy childhood.But the second one is up to you and no one else.,重拾快,樂,童年永不嫌晚，但,這,第二次只能靠你自己,20.When it comes to going after what you love in life,dont take no for an answer.,當,事情,關,乎你的生命所,愛,，不要把不,當,答案,21.Burn the candles,use the nice sheets,wear the fancy lingerie.Dont save it for a special occasion.Today is special.,點蠟燭,，用好的床,單,，穿上炫,麗,的内衣。不要等特殊,場,合才用，今天就是特别的一天,22.Over prepare,then go with the flow.,準備,要周全，然,後,随遇而安,23.Be eccentric now.,Dont wait for old age to wear purple.,現,在就,離經,叛道，不要等一把年,紀,了才,開,始穿上紫色,24.The most important sex organ,is the brain.,最重要的性器官是你的,腦,袋,25.No one is in charge of your happiness,but you.,除了你，没有人能主宰你的快,樂,26.Frame every so-called disaster with these words In five years,will this matter?.,用一句,話,概括你所有的不幸，,並,把它表框起,來,：“五年,後,，,這還,重要,嗎,？”,27.Always choose life.,永,遠選擇,生活,28.Forgive everyone everything.,原,諒,每一,個,人每一件事,29.What other people think of you is none of your business.,别人怎,麼,看你，根本不,關,你的事,30.Time heals almost everything.Give time,time.,時間會痊癒,每一件事，给自己,時間,，,時間,31.However good or bad a situation is,it will change.,無論,情况多好或多,壞,，它都,會變,的,32.Dont take yourself so seriously.No one else does.,不要,對,自己太,過認,真，没有人,會這樣,做的,33.Believe in miracles.,相信奇,跡,34.God loves you because of who God is,not because of anything you did or didnt do.,上帝,愛,你是因,為,祂是上帝，不是因,為,你做了什,麼,或是没做什,麼,35.Dont audit life.Show up and make the most of it now.,不要,謹,慎地,審視,人生。,現,在就呈,現,出你最大的光,環,36.Growing old beats the alternative,dying young.,變,老了是,勝,利，它打,敗,了另一,種選,项,項,死得早,37.Your children get only one childhood.,你的孩子只有一,個,童年,38.All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.,真正最重要的是你,愛過,39.Get outside every day.,Miracles are waiting everywhere.,每天都出,門,。奇,跡,在四,處,等,著,你,40.If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses,wed grab ours back.,如果我,們,把自己的,問題,堆成一堆，然,後,看看其他人的，我,們會,把我,們,的,檢,回,來,41.Envy is a waste of time.,You already have all you need.,忌妒别人是浪,費時間,。,你已,經擁,有你所需要的一切,42.The best is yet to come.,相信最好的即,將來臨,43.No matter how you feel,get up,dress up and show up.,不管你感,覺,如何，起床，穿好和呈,現,44.Yield.,善待,每個人,45.Life isnt tied with a bow,but its still a gift.,人生最,終,不,會,被打上蝴蝶结，但它仍然是一份,禮,物,Its estimated 93%wont forward this.If you are one of the 7%who will,forward this with the title 7%.,Im in the 7%.Remember that I will always share my spoon with you!,Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.,據,估,計,，,93%,的人不,會轉發這個郵,件。,如果你是那,7%,的人，,請,用,“,我在那,7%,裡,面,”,作,標題,，,將,它,轉發,出去。,說,明你,會認,真,對,待你的人生，我就在那,7%,裡,面。,朋友是我,們為,自己,選擇,的家庭成,員,。,Thanks for sharing,see you,感,謝,分享，,後會,有期,